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		<title>Comment on VeroWigo by Maria Albarran</title>
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		<dc:creator>Maria Albarran</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Nov 2012 08:49:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Vero I want to thank you for writing about ways to help our environment stay green. I am currently trying to get more companies to try to have a recycling program such as the programs of the companies that you mentioned. I wanted to ask if you would give me any recommendation of sites that provide statistics that show how much money companies actually save by recycling.

Thanks again for keeping our earth Green!!!

Maria Albarran]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Vero I want to thank you for writing about ways to help our environment stay green. I am currently trying to get more companies to try to have a recycling program such as the programs of the companies that you mentioned. I wanted to ask if you would give me any recommendation of sites that provide statistics that show how much money companies actually save by recycling.</p>
<p>Thanks again for keeping our earth Green!!!</p>
<p>Maria Albarran</p>
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		<title>Comment on Hold The Latte: Coffee Dates Stink by prattie</title>
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		<dc:creator>prattie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Aug 2012 05:22:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Coffee dates suck. First, when a man asks you out for coffee, he&#039;s cheap. Plain and simple. He is there to inspect you and judge you. Second, no matter what he sees, he still going to try to get you for a quickie of the oral sort.Third if he asks you to pay, please slap him in the face. Let me be clear, when you ask a woman on a date, you are expected to pay. If I asked a man on a date, I would pay. If you are friends you aren&#039;t on a date. Fourth, A man needs to realize that women groom and think about every little thing when it comes to first appearances. This includes, fixing our hair, putting on any makeup, choosing and outfit, shoes and accessorizing. Perfume is optional but doesn&#039;t hurt and we think about which scent. Do men do any of this? If he is thoughtful and polite, yes. Showing up in a wife-beater undershirt is cause for alarm. Asking a woman to a burger joint just isn&#039;t thoughtful, just as a coffee date. I am worth so much more than a hit and run 20 min coffee drink. To avoid any of this, I never ever go on a coffee date. It has served me well and I&#039;ve been in many happy relationships.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Coffee dates suck. First, when a man asks you out for coffee, he&#8217;s cheap. Plain and simple. He is there to inspect you and judge you. Second, no matter what he sees, he still going to try to get you for a quickie of the oral sort.Third if he asks you to pay, please slap him in the face. Let me be clear, when you ask a woman on a date, you are expected to pay. If I asked a man on a date, I would pay. If you are friends you aren&#8217;t on a date. Fourth, A man needs to realize that women groom and think about every little thing when it comes to first appearances. This includes, fixing our hair, putting on any makeup, choosing and outfit, shoes and accessorizing. Perfume is optional but doesn&#8217;t hurt and we think about which scent. Do men do any of this? If he is thoughtful and polite, yes. Showing up in a wife-beater undershirt is cause for alarm. Asking a woman to a burger joint just isn&#8217;t thoughtful, just as a coffee date. I am worth so much more than a hit and run 20 min coffee drink. To avoid any of this, I never ever go on a coffee date. It has served me well and I&#8217;ve been in many happy relationships.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Getting Over A Breakup- How To Get Over The Idiot by Petrina Ruyter</title>
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		<dc:creator>Petrina Ruyter</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jun 2012 09:40:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I like the helpful information you provide in your articles. I&#039;ll bookmark your blog and check again here frequently. I am quite certain I will learn plenty of new stuff right here! Best of luck for the next!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I like the helpful information you provide in your articles. I&#8217;ll bookmark your blog and check again here frequently. I am quite certain I will learn plenty of new stuff right here! Best of luck for the next!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Five Things Men Find Absolutely Boring in Bed by 5 Things Men Find Boring In Bed &#171; THE DAILY SEXY</title>
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		<dc:creator>5 Things Men Find Boring In Bed &#171; THE DAILY SEXY</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 May 2012 16:12:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<dc:creator>Steal Her Style: Khloe Kardashian's Style</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 May 2012 20:35:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on What Do Men Want in Bed- Kinky or Demure, Bossy or Submissive? by Get What You Want In Bed</title>
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		<dc:creator>Get What You Want In Bed</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Apr 2012 23:56:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] new tricks might make him feel insecure. However, beating around the bush and hinting at what you want in bed can often make it worse since he may never get [...]]]></description>
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		<dc:creator>The Best of Angelina Jolie Hairstyles</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Apr 2012 09:40:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Foreplay by Doctor V</title>
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		<dc:creator>Doctor V</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Apr 2012 09:23:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sarah, you have touched on a dilemma that has plagued humanity since the first time a caveman made a pass at a cavewoman.  The caveman just wants to please.  Unfortunately, he is a  caveman.  He was not born with the innate knowledge of the ways of the clitoris and the even more intricate folds of a woman&#039;s mind.  Once he gets excited, all subtlety and restraint get tossed out of the cave and he becomes a specimen resembling more ape than man.  The cavewoman, of course, just wants him to get it without having to blurt out specific instructions.  The reality is that, again, he is a caveman.  I happen to believe that language began when a sexually frustrated cavewoman invented it to explain to her neanderthal how to make her cum.  
     Believe it or not, even I, Dr. V have been informed that I could use a tweak in my technique.    My wife also told me that she was reluctant to tell me what I was doing wrong because it took something away from the experience for her if she knew that I was merely doing what she told me to do.  As men (or cavemen), it is difficult for us to wrap our minds around this.  Assuming your partner is a caring and attentive lover, he is likely eager to please.  I know you don&#039;t want to flat out tell him, but maybe that&#039;s what needs to be done.  The first time or two after your talk may be awkward, but this phase is sure to quickly pass.  It&#039;s like the old biblical parable; Give a man a fish and he eats for a day....Teach a man to give head, and you get orgasms for life.   
     Still, if you are insistent on beating around the proverbial bush, one idea to open his mind is to go to the local adult movie store and ask for a film that is woman-centric (yes, they exist), or even a lesbian film if that doesn&#039;t offend.  Tell your boyfriend you want him to copy some of the things he sees and that he is not allowed penetration until you climax.  Another game you can play is to tell him you want to explore each others&#039; bodies but without using your hands on any genitals.  This can be very erotic and sensual and is usually good for at least a few minutes of creative foreplay.  
     My final word on this though has to be that you ladies need to get over this idea of the perfect lover who is born with the intrinsic knowledge of a woman&#039;s clit.  This man does not exist.  When I meet the woman who knows, from the first time, how to give a proper hand job, I might reconsider my position.  Until then, I say, just have a talk with him.  When you are reaping the benefits, you will thank me.  Just don&#039;t call out, &quot;Thank you Dr. V,&quot; when you do.  That won&#039;t be good for anyone.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sarah, you have touched on a dilemma that has plagued humanity since the first time a caveman made a pass at a cavewoman.  The caveman just wants to please.  Unfortunately, he is a  caveman.  He was not born with the innate knowledge of the ways of the clitoris and the even more intricate folds of a woman&#8217;s mind.  Once he gets excited, all subtlety and restraint get tossed out of the cave and he becomes a specimen resembling more ape than man.  The cavewoman, of course, just wants him to get it without having to blurt out specific instructions.  The reality is that, again, he is a caveman.  I happen to believe that language began when a sexually frustrated cavewoman invented it to explain to her neanderthal how to make her cum.<br />
     Believe it or not, even I, Dr. V have been informed that I could use a tweak in my technique.    My wife also told me that she was reluctant to tell me what I was doing wrong because it took something away from the experience for her if she knew that I was merely doing what she told me to do.  As men (or cavemen), it is difficult for us to wrap our minds around this.  Assuming your partner is a caring and attentive lover, he is likely eager to please.  I know you don&#8217;t want to flat out tell him, but maybe that&#8217;s what needs to be done.  The first time or two after your talk may be awkward, but this phase is sure to quickly pass.  It&#8217;s like the old biblical parable; Give a man a fish and he eats for a day&#8230;.Teach a man to give head, and you get orgasms for life.<br />
     Still, if you are insistent on beating around the proverbial bush, one idea to open his mind is to go to the local adult movie store and ask for a film that is woman-centric (yes, they exist), or even a lesbian film if that doesn&#8217;t offend.  Tell your boyfriend you want him to copy some of the things he sees and that he is not allowed penetration until you climax.  Another game you can play is to tell him you want to explore each others&#8217; bodies but without using your hands on any genitals.  This can be very erotic and sensual and is usually good for at least a few minutes of creative foreplay.<br />
     My final word on this though has to be that you ladies need to get over this idea of the perfect lover who is born with the intrinsic knowledge of a woman&#8217;s clit.  This man does not exist.  When I meet the woman who knows, from the first time, how to give a proper hand job, I might reconsider my position.  Until then, I say, just have a talk with him.  When you are reaping the benefits, you will thank me.  Just don&#8217;t call out, &#8220;Thank you Dr. V,&#8221; when you do.  That won&#8217;t be good for anyone.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Secrets to Flawless Skin by Kim</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Apr 2012 07:15:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am totally going to try this. Thanks for the advice. Does anyone know what&#039;s the best product for stopping breakouts?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am totally going to try this. Thanks for the advice. Does anyone know what&#8217;s the best product for stopping breakouts?</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Apr 2012 23:12:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] control and jump on top. Don’t lay there like a sack of potatoes. Move your hips! Try some crazy new move you read about in Cosmo, and yes girls, get on top every once in a while. It is not only fun for [...]]]></description>
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