You can most likely come up with a few phrases you hate coming out of your guy’s mouth, but what about your mouth? I’m sure there are plenty phrases he probably finds super annoying that you say. We have compiled the top four, three word phrases men hate to hear.

Number One Phrase Men Hate To Hear: Is It In?

1. Don’t ever ask a man, during sex, if it is in yet. It is a complete turn off and will make him feel inadequate, not to mention it will ruin the moment.

We Gotta Talk

2. All this does it make him think either you are breaking up or he did something wrong. Instead start the conversation off with something positive. Unless he cheated on you then you should say, “We gotta talk, IT IS OVER!”

Am I Fat?

3. After speaking with a few of my male friends, they all agreed that most men hate to hear “Am I Fat.” Don’t ask a man if you are fat, unless you are prepared for his answer. Perhaps he thinks you need to lose a few pounds. If he does think you can afford to lose a little weight, do you really expect him to say that? If you are happy with your body and you are healthy then it shouldn’t matter what he thinks. However, if you are lazy couch potato who never works out then it is time to get off the couch and start working out. It is important to maintain your health while in a relationship, not only will you look more attractive to your partner but the sex is even better. How You Health Affects Your Love Life

 Men Hate to Hear: I’m Too Tired

4. When it comes to sex, most men can get busy even if they are exhausted. So when you simply say “I’m too tired” it makes him feel rejected. A lot of men hate to hear this three word phrase since many of them like to feel like they are the best in bed. The best you ever had. He wants to think he is so good that even though you are too tired, he has the capability of waking you up and making you feel great. Obviously you are not a machine, and sometimes you are too drained. Instead of just saying, “I’m too tired” try saying “honey you know how much I love having sex with you, but I’m truly exhausted. Can I have a rain check? I will make it worth the wait!”